The two of them finished smoking cigarettes and chatting about antiques. Zhang Tianyi had experienced the Cultural Revolution when he was growing up. Although Li Yan only mentioned it in passing. He didn't want to say more, so he suggested going out. There were still guests outside.

"By the way, Dad, who is that person outside?" Li Yan asked a little embarrassed.

Just from Jiang Xueyin, he already knew that he was Zhang Yurong's former classmate and former suitor. He said he worked in the UK and was now the manager of a hedge fund in London. But that was just background information, too little. Look at him

Being able to visit the Zhang family, and being able to leave him waiting at home when he is not at home, especially on the special day of Zhang Yurong's birthday, it is obvious that this Liu Yuyang has been here more than once, and he should be a relatively familiar person.

Moreover, if it is Zhang Yurong's former classmate or suitor, how old is Jiang Xueyin? He has read it so clearly before, and must have heard it through hearing.

Zhang Tianyi is different. The old man must know very well. And Li Yan also knows that in this family, his father-in-law is undoubtedly the most supportive of him. However, this is because of his father. Therefore, there is no one else here, so he just

Asked directly.

Hearing his question, Zhang Tianyi smiled and whispered: "What? Are you jealous?"

"It's not just based on our contact with Xing Gang, you should be familiar with him. If I know more about him, I won't say the wrong thing when I go out later." Li Yan took another cigarette.

Zhang Yurong asked him to light the cigarette, and then said: "Liu Yuyang's father is an old friend of mine in the shopping mall. Because of this relationship, they have known each other for a long time. Liu Yuyang is several years older than Yurong.

, but because Yu Rong studied very quickly and was an alumnus when he was in college, you should also be able to tell that he wanted to pursue Yu Rong. In fact, he pursued her since the beginning of college, but Yu Rong has always been interested in studying.

Lord, you know the reason.”

"Because of me?" Li Yan smiled bitterly.

"That's not entirely true. After all, I didn't find your dad at first and didn't even know you existed."

While Zhang Tianyi was talking, he took a long puff of cigarette. Then he choked and coughed a few times. He quickly covered his mouth. Li Yan hurried over and patted him on the back: "Stop smoking, right?" "It's okay,"

Zhang Tianyi waved his hands, calmed down, took another puff of cigarette, and then said slowly: "Actually," I used to be somewhat feudal or traditional-minded. I always wanted to have another son, but I didn't know it was me.

It's your mother's problem, or it's your cooperation. After all, there's only one child.

Li Yan could understand that if a rich man could afford to raise a son, he would of course want a son to inherit the family business! Although he had caught up with Ji Rong's childbearing age, in fact, he could easily do it if he had money.

In the name of "social support fees", the family planning department fined families who gave birth to children. In the booming era, some families in rural areas who could not afford the fines often had their valuables taken away from their homes, or even had their houses demolished and arrested for abortions. Therefore,

, before the Spring Festival Gala was dominated by river crabs, there was a sketch "Born Guerrillas" that reflected this major social problem.

Those who have no money can only run away and hide, but as long as they can afford the fine, it actually doesn't matter how many children you have. Twenty years ago, Zhang Tianyi, even without the glory of the current Paradise Group, still had no problem paying the birth fine.

It's a pity that because of his powerlessness, fate did not allow him to have a group of children because of his ability to fine and raise children.

"Actually, you are very good like this." Li Yan comforted: "Many rich people will only blame women. If their wives cannot give birth to sons, they will find more women and go around in different fields.

Sow seeds and hope to reap something

"You kid, you're neither big nor small!" Zhang Tianyi laughed and scolded.

"Hey, aren't I praising your character?"

Li Yan's words made Zhang Tianyi feel a little more relaxed. There were only two people, Weng and his son-in-law, who shared secrets with each other. He also regarded Li Yan as his biological son, so he was not too embarrassed and sighed: "Actually, I think the problem is with me."

Seeing Li Yan's tacitly weird expression, Zhang Tianyi laughed and cursed again: "What are you thinking about? It's not your father-in-law, I have a problem with my ability in some aspects! I told you before, what happened with your father, I

I stayed in the Golden Triangle for a longer time and was exposed to drugs.

After I came back, I was busy starting a business. When I became more stable, I fell in love and got married. I was already in my early thirties. After I got Yurong, I was at the peak of my career. At that time, I was very ambitious. I was young and worked hard.

, my health is poor, maybe the sperm survival rate is very low, I haven’t checked it, this is what I guessed later. I am very lucky, if I hadn’t had Yurong first, patronized my career, and delayed having children until I was forty.

,I might"

Li Yan silently smoked a cigarette and listened to his father-in-law telling his secret past. It was a bit funny at first, but then it became a bit creepy. His experience was different from Zhang Tianyi's, but he also had several years of hard times that were unbearable.

, although the body is stronger, but who knows if there are any hidden diseases left behind? And "he has had countless one-night stands with sexual partners. Will these have any impact?"

Damn! Isn’t sexual performance directly proportional to the sperm survival rate? Should I check the sperm survival rate? If it’s normal, that’s fine. If it’s relatively low, you should start working hard. Don’t wait until you are thirty or forty years old...

Zhang Tianyi is a man who has matured with age. Even when he was telling his secrets, he could still notice Li Yan's reaction. Although he didn't know exactly how he thought about it, he could guess what he was worried about.

The old man said deliberately: "There are many other causes of infertility."

"Huh?" Li Yan really doesn't have any research on this aspect. Although personally, it doesn't matter whether he has children or not. But his parents, father-in-law and mother-in-law, will definitely not agree to not having children, out of filial piety.

, he must also be concerned about this issue.

"Why does Buddhism divide sex into two types: righteous sexual behavior and improper sexual behavior? Generally speaking, morality and law distinguish between legitimate sexual behavior and improper sexual behavior?"

"I don't know." Li Yan shook his head. My father-in-law wants to be a guest expert today?

"Of course they have their own theories at the moral, legal, and religious levels. But the basic premise is the same, that is, it is divided into two types, the sexual intercourse between normal couples, and other sexual intercourse. Why do most people think of the latter as including one-night stands and cheating?

, prostitution, power and sex trading, masturbation, etc., often feel more exciting, but will make you more tired afterwards, and even burden you a lot?"

"Well, this Li Yan still has the right to speak. Since it is a purely academic discussion, he does not mind expressing his opinion: "Just because it is more exciting, he will naturally work harder, so he will be more tired; and because

It is illegal and inconsistent with the moral concepts we have accepted since childhood. We are afraid of being discovered, and have a sense of guilt, shame, etc., so it causes a psychological burden."

"Generally experts explain it this way. But now in the world of Sichuan Jifeng School, the science is also divided into subdivisions, and there are also experts. They study the issue of sperm."

Li Yan was a little sweaty. He felt that it was very painful for his father-in-law to suddenly tell him this!

Maybe older people are like this?

He really wanted to bring the topic back to Liu Yuyang, but it would be boring to go out with them. It would be better to chat with his aching father-in-law here. Anyway, he still has confidence in Yurong. At least.

They have also been friends for many years. They haven't seen each other for a long time, so they should be given some space to reminisce about the past without appearing petty.

"What lectures have you read?"

"I read a book. Some scientists analyzed the animal side of human beings and concluded that humans have the instinct to reproduce.

Li Yan was speechless. Isn't this a public opinion? Scientists who don't care about it also agree with this. When did humans break away from the animal nature of reproducing offspring? "In order to get data support and proof, they found people to do a lot of experiments.

.The results prove that the reproductive system of the human body is powerful. The number of sperm produced and the amount of discharge are sometimes fixed and sometimes variable. When a man has a fixed sexual partner, the production and discharge will be fixed, and the body will

Explore according to the frequency, summarize the rules and data, and then automatically adjust to the best;

When you change a new sexual partner, although modern people are afraid of pregnancy, this kind of reproductive nature is not understood, and the instinct will still be for possession and reproduction, so it will release many more sperm than normal to attack! This process is of course

In other words, the orgasm will last longer, and coupled with psychological factors, the stimulation will be stronger. More sperm will be released, and more sperm will need to be produced after release to make up for it. This will cause the body's reproductive system to be overloaded for a certain period of time.

So you will feel more tired." Zhang Tianyi said seriously.

Looking at him like this, he really looked like an old professor. Li Yan did not laugh, but asked seriously: "What next?"

"The result is that if you have a long-term sexual partner and the frequency and time of sexual life are regular, the human body system will be optimally adjusted without the need for constant changes, and the quality of sperm and the function of the human body will be better; otherwise, if it is too intense,

Overdraft. If there is no pattern and continuous overdraft, the body will not be able to bear it.

Just like a person who does aerobic exercise twice a week, his body will get the health effects of exercise; but if he doesn't exercise in general, he will exercise vigorously or continuously with no rules. This not only has no exercise effect, but will also cause

It’s very taxing on the body.”

Li Yan smiled: "I seem to understand a little bit, but isn't taking a flight more stressful than doing it once?"

Zhang Tianyi also felt a little embarrassed to "discuss this", but the topic has reached this point, so let's continue:

"Your own consciousness knows that you are not having sex with a woman, but in fact, you are still thinking about women. The objects of sexual fantasies are often unrealistic people, and many people even watch certain pictures and videos, which are of course unrealistic.

Yes, this novelty is erotic and gives men strong stimulation; but at the same time, it is also deceiving the reproduction system. For the reproduction system, it is like facing a new female reproductive body, it will automatically treat it with possession and reproduction.

, the result is the same.”

Seeing that he was almost finished smoking, Li Yan coughed dryly: "Dad, your theory is very constructive. For the sake of future generations, I will definitely keep it in mind!"

Hearing what he said, Zhang Tianyi also understood, and the topic returned to before.

"Yurong is a very well-behaved and smart child. She knew that her parents wanted to have another brother, but they didn't have one. So, we didn't raise her as a boy, but she was very ambitious and made herself good in all aspects.

There is no need to be inferior to boys. She is very obedient and filial. She is especially hardworking in study and work. She does it perfectly. Even if she is not a man, she can still take over my burden!"

"So, she has never been in love like other girls." Li Yan sighed secretly. He originally wanted to say that Yurong only lived for her parents because of her filial piety! But this topic was mentioned to Zhang Tianyi before, and now it seems

He saw it clearly, so he stopped talking about it.

"Actually, I also took it lightly later on. Haha, the times were different in the past. Now when we get married in our thirties or forties, no one talks about it. It's normal to have a boy or a girl, and it's normal not to have a baby. My concept has changed a long time ago.

"

Boys and girls are the same when they are born. When the family planning department of a certain place put up this promotional slogan, they privately used the image of Brother Chun to accompany the picture."

"Oh, my ideas have changed, but Yurong's ideas have changed." When she was in college, she had never been in love. Later, when I found your father and found out that he had a son who went to school to work, I started talking to their mother.

I made my decision. I think I told you this before?"

"Yeah." Li Yan nodded. See Chapter 26 for details.

"That's basically it. Liu Yuyang has known Yu Rong for more than ten years. He started pursuing her in college, but Yu Rong never accepted her. They just maintain a family relationship, which is at most a brother's relationship. Don't get me wrong, kid.

Don't be fooled by Liu Yuyang into thinking it's her first love, old lover or anything like that. That will really hurt Yurong!" Zhang Tianyi said seriously.

He would have a long talk with Li Yan, especially what Caiwang said that was not easy to express. It was simply because he saw that their relationship was not strong enough, and he hoped that they could have a child soon so that they could be together with peace of mind. Really.

In terms of conditions, Li Yan is obviously not as good as Liu Yuyang!

Li Yan also replied seriously: "Don't worry, I won't do it."

"But don't forget that Yu Rong never thought about falling in love before. Now she is twenty-five years old and her succession is basically stable. She will marry you first and then fall in love. Her heart has been opened. If you are interested in

If she's not good, maybe she will start to notice other good men around her. You can't take your time anymore, you have a sense of crisis! Don't think that everything will be fine with a marriage contract, Yurong is a very independent adult!" Zhang Tianyi said this

It's a warning.

Li Yan nodded, knowing what he said made sense.

In the past, Yurong had closed herself off, but now that she accepts his pursuit, she may not be unable to accept the pursuit of others. The marriage was mainly due to Zhang Tianyi's illness. His illness has now stabilized and is getting better, and their marriage has not been made public.

, it’s not troublesome to solve it. Even if my father-in-law approves of me, my wife still has to see what Yurong means.
Chapter completed!