721 The Farmer's Old Lady X The Old Bachelor's Neighbor (8)
6. Xin’s family should not do evil outside, not bully the weak, and be victorious with virtue, but they should not be bullied. (If necessary, you can turn tooth back.)
7. Both men and women of the Xin family must recognize words from a young age. Even if they cannot participate in the imperial examination, they cannot be illiterate who cannot recognize words.
8. It is better to be a poor wife than a rich concubine, and the girls of the Xin family are not allowed to be concubines.
9. The sons of the Xin family must stand up to the sky and be down-to-earth, and should not use their wives as punching bags. Those with bad behavior will be directly expelled from the house.
ten,…………
There are several more items below, all about family education, and I will describe them one by one here.
Lingjiu has thought about it seriously. If you want the Xin family to develop well in the future, you must unite and pay attention to the education of your children.
However, she didn't have the patience and slowly taught a few cheap sons and cheap daughters-in-law, so she thought of setting a series of family rules for her family.
As for whether they will listen to her?
With his original body being very powerful and his filial piety suppression in this era, Lingjiu is not afraid of them being disobedient, and she can beat them all up even if she is not good.
Of course, Lingjiu didn't want to use violence to solve the problem, after all, it would be easy to break down her character.
Because although the original body looks a bit serious and sometimes even appears a bit ruthless, it rarely attacks the child.
When Lingjiu announced the new "family rules", the Xin family couldn't help looking at each other, looking a little confused.
Some people can't understand their own "mother-in-law" and what exactly is this fun?
Xin Changping: Could it be that my little sister was stimulated by her resignation and was in a bad mood, so she suddenly had this idea?
Xin Changan: I didn’t expect that the mother would be so hidden. These dozens of “family rules” are really quite good, and he may not be able to think of it for a while.
Moreover, the content of these "family rules" is obviously very different from the educational concepts they have received since childhood.
It would be fine if it was Article 1 to Third, as well as Article 6, Eight and Twelve, but he could still understand why "Mother" had to set such family rules.
After all, parents hope that their children will have a harmonious and united relationship, and hope that their daughters-in-law can keep their peace.
In addition, "Mom" is a person who wants to be extremely face-saving. She takes personal face seriously and is worried that they will make any inappropriate actions outside, which is normal for her to embarrass her.
But the other contents of "family rules" surprised him and could not understand it. (In modern terms, it completely refreshed his world concept.)
Boys are more precious than girls. Boys can be passed on to the family line. Girls are just money-losing goods. The married daughter = the water that is poured out.
Most people have this idea. Although they don’t think that their daughter is a loser, they also think that their son is more important than their daughter.
After all, after the daughter is raised, she will marry into someone else's family. Then she will be from someone else's family. If she gets married far away, she will rarely go back to her parents' home all year round.
It’s different for a son. In the future, the son can not only support his parents in his old age, but also bring honor to his ancestors with capable sons.
When I was a child, my parents told them the same thing that their parents did not pay as much attention to their elder sister and younger sister as they did to their brothers.
But now some of the "family rules" formulated by "Mom" are obviously contrary to his inherent perception. Is "Mom" serious?
It is obvious that my mother considers her son more important than her daughter, so why do she suddenly ask parents to be fair and not to be biased towards her son?
Xin Changxi: "Mom" was suddenly stimulated. Why do these so-called "family rules" sound a bit weird?
Could it be that ‘Mom’ is joking with them?
Xin Changle: When did "Mom" become so enlightened?
Is this the mother he is familiar with?
Could he be dreaming?
It can be said that the "family rules" formulated by Lingjiu made the four brothers a little confused and felt a little incredible.
People who were also confused, including Zhao, He, and Wang, all of them were a little doubted that they had heard it wrong?
Zhao and He were quite confused about these "family rules" and suspected that their "mother-in-law" had been possessed by evil spirits.
Otherwise, how could there be such an outrageous idea?
This feeling is like the shock and discomfort when an ancient man traveled to modern times when he saw someone treating his daughter as a treasure and spoiling his daughter as a little princess, but he was extremely harsh with his son.
Do you think this family is brain-related?
Zhao and He had similar ideas at this time, and they could not understand their own "mother-in-law"'s approach and ideas.
Although they dare not say anything, they can't help but think: Is there something wrong with my mother-in-law's mind?
It's okay for He. Although she couldn't understand Lingjiu's sudden behavior, she didn't have much thought in her mind.
After all, she has just married into the Xin family not long ago and has no children yet, so the "family rules" formulated by Lingjiu will not have much impact on her for the time being.
Relatively speaking, Zhao's reaction was relatively large, and he was also the one who had the biggest opinion on this matter.
As the eldest daughter-in-law of the Xin family, she gave birth to the eldest grandson for the Xin family not long ago. Zhao felt a little proud of this.
As for this son, Zhao has always been very precious in his heart. He is afraid of breaking his friend in his hand and afraid of melting his mouth.
But now the "mother-in-law" has formulated such family rules, which makes her unable to understand and a little unacceptable, and she feels a little frustrated.
Unlike the ideas of Zhao and He, Wang was a little surprised by the "family rules" stipulated by Lingjiu, but he was quite satisfied.
As mentioned earlier, Wang's family is literate. Wang's four more enlightened fathers did not have the idea that a woman was virtuous without talent, and she also attached more importance to her daughters.
(Note: Wang is the third child in the family, with two sisters above and one younger brother and one younger sister below. She and two older sisters were born from their original wife, and the younger brother and sister were born to a stepmother.)
Perhaps influenced by Wang's father, Wang's idea was slightly different from that of ordinary women. He was a woman with "ambitiousness".
Her goal is to be an official wife. If her husband becomes an official one day, he should pay attention to many things, otherwise it will easily make jokes.
So I don’t think there is any problem with the “family rules” formulated by Lingjiu. I really think it’s good to set such “family rules”.
If it can be implemented and implemented, it will be beneficial to the development of the family, and maybe it can also develop Xin into a scholarly family.
The reason why Wang was surprised was that his original body was just an ordinary village woman, but Lingjiu made this happen, which inevitably made people surprised.
Fortunately, Wang didn't think much about it, and did not doubt that Lingjiu's identity was a problem. She just thought that she had been hiding her weakness since then.
Yanjiu didn't know what the few cheap sons and cheap daughter-in-law were thinking. Seeing that they were all looking at him with a stunned look on his face, pretending to be angry and looked up.
Chapter completed!