Chapter 895
Seeing that Tan Jingye had no objection to the marriage, Shi Shi Tan asked his wife to go to Gu's family to propose marriage.
Mrs. Tan was not very happy to go to Gu's family to propose marriage, and said, "Miss Lin has a reputation. Will marrying them have any impact on you?"
Mr. Tan said: "Miss Lin Er is good at learning, and Lord Lin is also a sixth-rank magistrate. Whether it is from family background or personal conditions, he is very successful in his business."
Seeing that he was firm in his attitude, Mrs. Tan did not dare to go against Mr. Tan's wishes, she had to agree.
After Tan Jingye moved out, the couple had a fight over this matter, and then Tan Xueshi was so angry that he didn't go into the backyard for three months. This time, he asked her to give up the challenge, and the relationship between the couple would definitely deteriorate further.
Qingshu knew that both of them were happy with this marriage, so he told Mrs. Gu about the matter.
Tan Jingye is a child of a scholar. Ding Wang's family is also a big family, which is exactly in line with Mrs. Gu's requirements.
Mrs. Gu was very happy, but also complained to Qingshu: "I didn't tell me about such a big thing before. I told me only after the matter was settled. Your child's idea is getting bigger and bigger."
Qingshu smiled and said, "I am also worried that the marriage will not come true, and you will be happy at that time."
Mrs. Gu laughed and scolded: "No matter what you do, you have your own reasons. If you don't talk about this, when will the Tan family come to propose marriage?"
"Just these two days."
Mrs. Gu asked with some concern: "Why are you so fast? Don't you tell her parents about this?"
"Since Mr. Tan can invite a matchmaker to come to his house, he can show that he can make the decision on this marriage. I think Mr. Tan must have told him about this."
Otherwise, even if it is a uncle, it is impossible for him to decide the marriage of his nephew without asking about his parents. If it is easy to cause conflicts, Mr. Tan would not make such a low-level mistake.
Mrs. Gu said, "What about Mrs. Tan? She doesn't care about her son's lifelong affairs."
"Grandma, didn't I just say that Mrs. Tan doesn't like Tan Jingye's son? I didn't care about searching for his marriage." Qingshu said with a smile: "You don't have to worry about her making things difficult for An An in the future. Tan Jingye said that he would not return to Heze in the future."
Even if I return to Shandong, I will only live for ten days and a half months, and I will endure it. Besides, women in big families like this need shame, so Mrs. Tan should not dare to do too much. Of course, An An is not a soft persimmon that will not swallow her anger when she is bullied.
Because both families were satisfied, the marriage was settled quickly.
The day after the engagement, Tan Jingye gave An An a silver phoenix flower-carved silver hairpin.
Qingshu loves An An very much and buys jewelry for her every quarter of the years. The silver hairpin is not enough to look at the jewelry of An An, but she is still very happy.
After putting it on, An An felt that this was too plain, so she added a pair of red gold lantern earrings.
Qingshu was a little uncomfortable with her outfit: "Why are you dressing so lightly today?"
The young girl must wear brighter and better looks, and An An also likes beautiful clothes of various colors. Qingshu is willing to treat her. In addition to the eight sets of clothes sent by Mrs. Qi every season, she will also make twelve sets of clothes for her.
An An was embarrassed to say the reason, so he casually made an excuse: "Mrs. Tan does not like Tan Jingye, so I will definitely not dress too well in the future. Otherwise, she will definitely be scolded."
Hearing this, Qingshu's face was not good-looking.
When Qingshu stared at her, An An felt a little drumming in her heart: "Sister, what's wrong with you?"
Qingshu said, "I told you that after getting married, you can't revolve around your husband all day long, you should have your own things to do."
"Tomorrow, I will go out to find something to do, and I will not stay at home all day long and think about it."
When An An saw Qingshu's face look ugly and his tone was very stern, he asked aggrievedly: "Sister, why are you angry?"
Qingshu said calmly: "Do you know why my mother became like this? Grandma's spoiling is one reason, and Lin Chengyu's other reason is brainwashed."
"What?"
Qingshu said: "Our good father instilled her husband's idea of being the god in her whole day. She asked her mother to think about him wholeheartedly, and then she had to be filial and respect her parents-in-law. It was also influenced by her that she only had the husband's family in her heart and no biological daughter."
Mrs. Gu raised Gu Xian to be selfish, while Lin Chengyu raised Gu Xian to be more and more brainless.
An An really didn't know about this: "So that's it."
"I'll go out to find something to do tomorrow. If I can't teach, I can learn to do errands in advance."
Anyway, you can't let An An stay at home, otherwise you will be really afraid of becoming the second mother.
An An hurriedly said, "Sister, I was just joking with you just now. Sister, I was wearing this outfit to match the hairpin that Tan Jingye gave me."
Qingshu said: "If you subconsciously don't have this idea, then find a reason instead of finding such an excuse."
An An was stunned.
Qingshu slowed down: "An An, listen to me, and after getting married, he will insist on finding a job. It is not to make money, but not to stay in the house and revolve around the man."
After hearing this, An An asked, "Sister, grandma has always hoped that you will resign. Will you resign? What should you do if you don't stay in the back house after resigning?"
Qingshu said: "After I resigned, I either went to do business or went to girls' school to find a job. Anyway, I wouldn't stay on this inner house for a mu of three cents of land."
"An An, don't you like teaching? If you like it, you should stick to it."
An An lip lightly bit her lower lip: "But grandma won't agree, and I want to embroider the dowry."
Qingshu said, "Just listen to grandma's words, don't keep them in mind. As for the dowry, you will have two or three years to get married, and it will be enough to get up for two or three winter and summer vacations."
An Anmu looked at her blankly.
"An An, I won't force you if you don't go. After all, you are so old and can decide your own business. But I hope you can live according to your own wishes in the future, rather than be influenced by others."
She was actually very clear and Shu Anan was led by Mrs. Gu and was also affected a lot, such as her temperament was a little sensitive and had a little irritable temper. She has been correcting it over the years, and she has corrected it a lot.
An An said with a bitter face: "Sister, I actually like teaching very much, but I don't want to get up so early every day."
"You can find a way to solve this!"
An An was puzzled: "What method?"
Chapter completed!