Chapter 423 Derivative Thesis Two: Weakness, Empathy and Empathy
Yan Liyue still remembers how her colleague and sister looked when she saw this passage after she recommended "Qin Jue's home".
"The actor you like...is so special."
She was a little incredible and a little indescribable, "It's rare, no, it's completely rare..."
"I know." Yan Liyue held the hand of her colleague's sister hard, "I know."
Qin Jue is different, unlike all the young actors she has known so far.
When Qingqing, including Yan Liyue, who couldn't help but be greedy for "qin", was morally criticized by internal companions, passers-by and experts outside, Qin Jue shared her own views from a more calm, comprehensive and rational perspective.
She understands the fans' love for her and understands where their excitement and excitement are, but she will also restrain and remind Qingqing to pay attention to the occasion and distinguish the importance of it.
Such a move is a bit exaggerated, and it is a real redemption for Yan Liyue and others.
After all, desire is human instinct and human nature.
It is at both ends of the balance and moral conscience, and people will balance these two points in their lifetime.
For example, when appetite and desire for survival are greater than moral conscience, people who are hungry will steal and rob.
For example, some people can keep the bottom line of conscience and not commit crimes, while others are overwhelmed by desire and become beasts.
Qin Jue did not blame him on the commanding heights of morality, and he disliked their temporary careless desires. He had not experienced it personally like Yan Liyue. It was difficult to understand how important this was.
Because, for those Qingqing who have conscience and make mistakes by chance, if Qin Jue is angry and scolds them or takes a contempt and hates their behavior, they will definitely be tortured by their conscience and constantly feel "I am so disgusting", "How can I do this", "I deserve it if I was hated by the little wolf", and then fall into self-blame and guilt, and will never let me go.
If that is true... what is the difference between "preserving the laws of nature and eliminating human desires"?
Morality and conscience are the bottom line of man, but they are not a mountain that confines and suppresses human nature.
Respect human nature, look at it rationally, and maintain a conscience.
This is what Qin Jue taught them.
It is also because of this that after the broadcast of "The Furnace", many Qingqing seriously discussed deep-seated issues with Qin Jue.
This actor doesn't look like an actor at this time, but like everyone's life mentor.
[Question] Xiaolang, during the live broadcast, you said, "I'll talk about this question later". I'll urge qwq. I want to hear your opinion on Teacher Yue Yang's question... Is this kind of concern wrong?
[Answer] To put it more deeply, it is empathy and empathy. In life, we often care and help others, but many times, we do not know whether this kind of care is "our own wishful thinking". To be honest, it is impossible to completely avoid this point, because it is difficult for people to look at problems from the perspective of others. Teacher Yue was of course out of kindness at that time, but he did not think of the matter of "I will speak and use my voice when answering questions" on the spot, and I knew that his original intention was good, so I would not blame him.
[Answer] Since I have said this, let me say more. "Empathy" does not mean tolerance or sympathy, but rather putting my understanding and respect in my shoes. For example, if a person suffers from a terminal illness, his family is desperately trying to save him and want him to survive, but he himself feels that he is old and almost over. Why not have fun and leave this world? At this time, he has an old friend who understands and respects his ideas. They leave the hospital, travel around, and finally say goodbye freely... At this time, which of the two sides of "family" and "friends" do you think is correct?
[Answer] The answer is, there is no right or wrong. What comes from family is to not give up, to keep, to care; what comes from friends is to understand, to respect, to empathy and empathy. If the old man survives in the end, he may not be grateful for his family's unyieldingness; if the old man leaves the world after traveling with his friends, he might have a trace of regret and reluctance flashed before his death. Who can say this accurately?
[Answer] Life is very philosophical and has no conclusion. But I have to say that empathy is a very important and valuable quality. People with empathy can better understand others. Just like I can't help you improve your exam results effectively, I can talk with you when you are depressed and anxious because of your grades, and sit on the roof to watch the stars together.
[Answer] Similarly, this is also the opinion of the judges when commenting at that time. The concepts of strength and weakness are opposite, and everyone has moments of being the weak. To quote Teacher Yue Yang, "When I have something you desperately want to have, but never gets, all my arrogant behaviors built on this thing are a kind of tyranny that is high and superior to you."
[Answer] Dear Qingqing, don’t think that “this thing” is very large and very far away. It can be “healthy”, “a sound organ”, or “my grades”, or “the card I drew in the game today”. Do you understand? Sometimes your sharing and your care may be arrogance to others and will cause trauma to them. This is the meaning of empathy.
[Reply·Answer] I was inspired to see the end... It was so real. My friend and I were playing a card draw game recently. She had a very wanted character. She spent a lot of money to get it. As a result, I drew it with the official props. At that time, I was excited to share with her Ouqi... Now that I think about it, I feel like a bad pen, but fortunately she is so angry... From her perspective, I really feel very sad for a moment, alas.
[Reply·Answer] Yes, so then Teacher Qin's previous answer, we can think that Qin is very fragrant, and that his flaws and weaknesses make him more attractive, but be careful not to put such words in public places (including live broadcast rooms)! Otherwise, what will Qingqing, who have some physical defects, think when she sees it? (Ah... Will my words also cause discomfort to you? Sorry, Sorry, QAQ)
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[Reply·Answer] Hug Qingqing above, I am the deaf and mute Qing who teaches Teacher Qin's sign language. Thank you for saying so much, and thank you for your concern and understanding~#Bi Xin
[Reply·Answer] Alas, I feel very emotional. It is really hard to do empathy. My mother was hospitalized unexpectedly before. When I went to bed, I saw a grandfather answering the phone in the next bed. He had a throat-related surgery. He spoke very hard and had a very light voice. At this time, he should have been resting, but from the hands-free, you can still hear the person on the other side constantly asking "Are you okay?" and "How is your recovery?"... This kind of care will cause trouble to people, alas.
[Reply·Answer] That's right, think about it more when you care. I have also had this kind of experience. Once my dad said that if I got the exam, I would take me out to play. Later, when I got the first place in the class, he forgot about this because of work... Then he might have wanted to make up for it, so he bought me new clothes, but what I care about was not a reward, it was just a word of his apology...
"Let me talk about something off topic. I am Xin Qingqing who is in the pit of "The Furnace"." Someone in the topic area posted this, "I feel very moved after reading it these days. I have seen a new interactive system between celebrities and fans... Now we often use 'idol' to refer to singing and dancing stars, young and fresh meat, but what is the meaning of the word 'idol'? Isn't it a 'role model'?"
"I hereby declare that Qin Jue is my idol, the most traditional and important one, an idol who can be a role model and a benchmark in life.
"Stand out the post as evidence, I hope I can become a better self as well.
"Now, the college entrance examination is over. As a student party, I don't have much money to donate after watching "The Furnace", so I want to volunteer this summer to help the disabled. Well, although it is insignificant, it can help a little bit!
"Thank you Xiaolang, thank you all!"
【Gujiugujiujiujiu!!】
[Raise your hand! I want to go there too if there is a group!]
[It's the new volunteer! OK! I'm also volunteering hahahaha]
[How to register for advice, I want to go too!]
【Already learning sign language--】
In the country bus carrying the entire crew, Qin Jue looked at the reply on the screen, breathed a sigh of relief, and closed his cell phone.
There is always a moment in life that makes people feel that... "Living" is full of value and meaning.
It's great that she can be reborn.
Chapter completed!