Chapter 66: The Second-hand Trader in Superspace (22)
"Oh, you can stay at grandma's house first."
Zhu Wen's reaction was quite timely, so he quickly waved his hand and asked his son to go out first. Zhu Cong also realized that what he said just now seemed to be a little inappropriate.
He was afraid that he would be beaten.
Then he ran out,
Before leaving, I didn't forget to close the door.
At the same time, Xu Ping's eyes were already slightly red, and her emotions were faintly collapsed, and she said in a crying voice:
"Why am I so unlucky? I have such a pair of children who are not worry-free. Their children are good at studying and successful in their careers, and some children are already able to make soy sauce. Unlike my family, they are not good at studying and are not good at studying and are disobedient and disobedient.
I can still harm him like this as a damn person.
He just poked my heart.
What do I have to do with my whole life?”
Zhu Wenhua quickly stepped forward, hugged his wife from behind, and persuaded her softly:
"Okay, okay, it's okay, it's okay, the child just talks quickly, don't be angry, just think that we committed evil in our previous life and owe them two."
"Bah, you've committed a crime.
I've committed a sin to marry you and gave birth to these two."
"Okay, okay, it's my sin. You were a Bodhisattva in your previous life, and you specially saved me, who had committed sin. Unexpectedly, you will also fall into the sea of suffering with me.
Don't be angry or cry.
This child really doesn't work, so let him go back to study in a technical secondary school or a higher vocational school. At least he can't starve to death by the academic skills.
His grades have not improved since he was a child.
I think I am not good at studying, and maybe it may have something to do with us having him at the age of 40. After all, the doctors have said that children born at an age are likely to be less likely than children born at the age of 20 or 30."
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Under Zhu Wen's comfort, Xu Ping's mood finally eased a little, and she was no longer as excited as before.
The two of them could finally sit down and talk calmly.
"Are you really going to let him study in a technical secondary school or a vocational high school?"
After being angry, Xu Ping still had to consider her son's future and asked worriedly. In her mind, vocational high school is only those who cannot get into ordinary high school. Although her son just cannot get into ordinary high school, she undoubtedly wants to struggle for her son for a while, and even has the luxury of perhaps having a better grades after entering high school.
But Zhu Wenhua shook his head directly at this time:
"I just thought about it. Maybe we should have recognized the reality for a long time. We should have recognized the reality that Zhu Cong was not a material for studying. Since the first grade of elementary school, his grades have gradually decreased as the difficulty of textbooks have increased. He has done a lot of homework and other things on weekdays, and he has not been addicted to games or anything else.
If his grades in the past are very good, because he plays games, or doesn't study hard, which leads to his grades decline, then we can still think of ways.
Let him work harder in an ordinary high school.
Maybe there is still a certain chance to go to college.
But this kid is obviously not.”
"His grades are just like that, no hope."
"It's better to let him learn skills in vocational high schools. Compared with technical secondary school, there is another advantage that if his academic performance really improves in the future, he will not have the opportunity to take the junior college or junior college to undergraduate.
I have no professional skills in my academic performance.
That won't be able to find a job, right?
This is the best way I can think of.”
Just as he comforted his wife, Zhu Weng also considered the matter of his children and really felt that there was no need to force some things.
Since a child is really unable to go to an ordinary high school, why force him to go to it? Will he improve his grades or get into college after going to school? People still have to be more realistic.
You also have to have some self-knowledge about your children.
If a child is good, it is okay. If he doesn't, he doesn't. Even though he is not good, he has to force the child to do it. It may not be for the sake of the child's good, but harming the child.
Parents must accept that people are different.
Some gaps cannot be made up by hard work.
"But this is too embarrassing.
None of the relatives of his generation did not get into ordinary high school. I can accept that the children are mediocre, but this is no longer a problem of mediocrity.
He and his sister were born to the same parents.
Why are there such a big gap in learning?”
Xu Ping's difficulty in accepting is mainly because she is unable to accept it. She had a daughter before and her academic performance was quite good. If the daughter in front of her had the same academic performance, she would definitely be much easier to accept.
"No matter what, we have to accept it, no."
Immediately afterwards, they looked at each other for a long time without saying a word, silently speaking, and even tried hard to accept it.
After they completely accepted this matter and made a decision for Zhu Cong, they discussed another child in the family, Zhu Xin, and then shared with each other the relevant information they learned recently.
"Why do you think she is so cruel? If you say she doesn't contact me, then I won't contact me. Isn't it all for her?
It's been nearly six years since then.
Her child is probably already in school?
We can't give in every time..."
When it comes to her daughter, Xu Ping is still worried because her daughter is not like her son, and she can see it every day. Now she doesn’t even know where her daughter lives. The few things she knows are basically just from the little information revealed in her girlfriend circle.
At this time, it may be because she had already compromised a lot with her son, so she couldn't help but want to continue to compromise, and she still missed her daughter in her heart.
We can't give in every time we say we can't give in.
But the word "bar" means she was shaken.
"It's true that children are all debts. I said a few years ago that girl is more stubborn than you. You have been saying that she must compromise with us and apologize to you. But you forgot that you have been infatuated with parents forever. The heart of being children is really hard, but it's much harder than that of us parents.
So, let's just forget it.
I went back to contact my daughter, just like last time. I first contacted my daughter, and then don’t talk about her anymore, so as to ease the relationship between each other.
If my daughter is willing to come back.
Don't urge her to go on blind dates, or reveal her past scars, pretend to be deaf and dumb. Don't worry about her.
Children and grandchildren have their own blessings, but she is not a child.
You are already thirty years old, just do whatever you like, as long as you don’t commit any crime, okay?"
Zhu Wenhua could also clearly hear the regret in his wife's words, so he immediately followed the flow and said that he would be the icebreaker.
At the same time, I didn't forget to remind his wife that when the relationship between mother and daughter eased a little, I would not meddle in other people's business.
Just do whatever your child loves.
Keep in mind, but instead get revenge.
"I understand..." Xu Ping replied helplessly.
Chapter completed!