But this harmony did not last long.

Xu Ping and Zhu Wenhua have completely accepted the fact that their daughter is pregnant before marriage, has a child, and even takes care of the child alone. They basically do not mention these things when chatting to avoid hurting their daughter.

But others do not have this kind of enlightenment.

The day after Ding Yun came back.

I heard someone in the community discussing that the Zhu family's daughter who was pregnant before marriage came back with the unmarried child. She probably couldn't make it outside anymore.

At the same time, they were also "enthusiastic" to worry about others.

"I just heard about it a few years ago, but I didn't expect it to be true. She really brought a child back. She took the child without getting married. Who should I marry back?"

"I'm afraid I can only marry a second marriage, otherwise only the old bachelor would be able to accept her."

"Or it's okay to be a stepmother for someone."

"What if she gets married outside?"

"How is it possible? If she gets married outside, even if she doesn't come back to hold the wedding, she has to take her parents over to hold the wedding. And if she wants to get married, can her parents not refute the rumors?"

"Oh, it's really inappropriate.

If my daughter dares to do this, she will get pregnant before marriage, and it would be strange if I don’t break her legs. So what if I study hard and go to college, I’m not as sensible as my daughter who is not in high school. Now she’s good at getting married, having children and taking care of children.”

"What was her daughter called her in ancient times? She was called an illegitimate daughter in ancient times. It was despicable. Only in recent years, the household registration was released. Otherwise, her daughter would not even be able to register for the household registration. She really has all kinds of people!"

"Don't say it too bad."

"What's wrong? We didn't spread rumors. Is it fake for her to have a baby or is it fake for her not to get married?"

"Yes, she dares not let anyone tell me if she dares to do it?"

"That is, now, the clan concept is not that deep. In the past, if such a daughter appeared in the family, the daughter of the entire family would not be easy to get married for more than ten or twenty years, and even those who have nothing to do with their family in the village will be affected. People will be criticized for their family's bad family traditions and people will be criticized for their bad customs."

"Oh, why do you say so much about other people's affairs? It's not a problem for you. Besides, that girl is like this because she was deceived. Even if you want to say it, you should also say that ex-boyfriend!"

"But we don't know her ex-boyfriend!"

...

Although they did not say it in front of Ding Yun, but there was a small shop downstairs in her house, and at the door was an important place for those people to play cards or chat. In addition, they did not whisper with their mouths and ears, but they almost shouted with loudspeakers, so Ding Yun in the room clearly heard it.

But Ding Yun had no choice but to do anything to them.

Because she couldn't rush down and beat them up.

These are also the reasons why Xu Ping and the others thought that their daughter was good to leave their hometown. They couldn't help but listen to these gossips when they lived at home, and it was even difficult to break up with them. When they went abroad, they were basically strangers, so they would be better.

Originally, Xu Ping and the others thought that it had been six years since the incident, and the residents in the community should have forgotten about it, but they did not expect to come back with the person involved.

They brought up the story of that year and even affected the content of the discussion on their granddaughter.

This really made Xu Ping, who also discovered this situation, so she wanted to rush down and fight with them, but in the end she was stopped by Ding Yun.

Because this kind of thing is just like guarding against the people.

Preventing people's mouths is better than preventing rivers.

It was not a matter of illegal or criminal discussion in private. Instead, they went down to fight with them, which was because they really violated the public security punishment regulations and could not be blocked.

However, because of this, both Ding Yun and Xu Ping were obviously depressed. At the same time, Ding Yun could better understand why the original mother tried hard to stop the original body from leaving the child. The difficulties that the child had to face when he stayed may not only be money and energy, but also greater pressure may not come from himself.

But it comes from the outside world.

Although many people say that you don’t need to care about other people’s opinions when doing what you think is right, it’s easy to say this sentence, and you can just touch your upper and lower lips a few times, but it’s not easy to do it.

Who can really ignore the comments from outside?

Sometimes parents urge their children to get married, or even force their children to study to apply for cram school, etc., to a large extent, it may not be because they think so at the beginning, but because of external discussions, others' persuasion, and others' actions, and if they do it themselves, they seem to be behind. Only then will parents actively transfer this emotion to their children and turn to urge them to get married or enroll in cram school.

"Mom, I'll go back in a while.

I can’t afford to offend me, but I don’t care. I just want to be afraid that the child will accidentally hear it.

I don't want my children to be inferior because of my reasons.

I have told you where I live now. If you want me, you can go see me if you have time. To be honest, I don’t really want to come back during the New Year, so let’s talk about it this year. If you have time, I will come back. Otherwise, you can take Zhu Cong to my New Year.

I contracted the travel expenses in full."

After persuading Xu Ping, Ding Yun had to make such a decision. Even if she didn't think about her mood, she had to consider her daughter. Even if her daughter might not understand these rumors now, she still didn't want her daughter to hear them often, or lived in an environment where people kept saying their own gossip.

She couldn't drive all these neighbors away.

Or knock them halfway and teach them a lesson.

Besides, she didn't plan to stay in her hometown for how long, so hiding from them was the best choice.

Xu Ping felt that she could understand her daughter, so she did not ask why, but nodded directly: "It's really not good to let the child hear it."

In the future, you will come back when you have time. If we have time, we will see you. I will retire next year. If you don’t have time to take care of your children, I can go and help you take care of your children when you go back. Anyway, I don’t dare to count on your brother to study anymore, so I can worry less.”

"You retire and live well for yourself.

There is no need to make trouble for myself anymore. I will take care of the child by myself. Anyway, she will go to elementary school next year.

Not that difficult to take care of.

And the children are sensible and not troublesome.

If you want to go out for fun, I will sign you up for a tour group when you retire and you will go for fun with the tour group.

Anyway, just be happy.

I'm living a good life, nothing is wrong."

Ding Yun did not say that she had opened two companies because the source of her startup funds was hard to say, so she only said that she had a job easy, earned a lot, and raising a child alone was also easy. At this time, she heard her mother say that she was willing to help her take care of her children after retirement, and she also advised her mother not to find trouble for herself when she retired. If she did a lot, no one would necessarily appreciate it. It was better to manage each generation.

But Xu Ping waved her hands repeatedly at this time:

"No, no, what kind of travel is going on? If I go on a trip, what will your dad and your brother do?

They are not allowed to starve to death at home.

If I don’t stay at home for two or three days, they can ruin their home like a doghouse. Let’s forget it. I’m just working hard, so that’s it. You’ll stay at home. I’ll go downstairs to buy groceries and come back later!”

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Chapter completed!