Friday, July 22, 2005

When Yang Jing rushed to pull me over, I was stunned.

Ma Juan is back, the person who has been missing for fifteen years is standing in front of me today.

In fifteen years, apart from the feeling of vicissitudes of life, Ma Juan has not changed much and is easy to recognize.

During the summer vacation of 1990, Ma Juan's sister Ma Ling was encouraged to go to Pengcheng and was preparing to wholesale some fashionable clothes and make a fortune. Ma Juan accidentally heard it and insisted on following her to see the world. Because Uncle Ma opposed, the two of them went sneaking away.

As a result, when they went there, the two sisters lost their letters. Uncle Ma went to Pengcheng to search. He had been wandering for more than a year. When he was sent back by the police there, he was stupid. He was robbed and beaten by local gangsters and injured his head. The two sisters Ma Juan could not find him.

The ones who came back with Ma Juan were also her husband and two sons, one ten years old and the other eight years old.

Back then, the gangster Ma Dan'er encouraged them to take them to Pengcheng to make a fortune, but the car arrived at Shangdu Station. Ma Dan'er got off the car on the pretext of finding a friend to get money and sold the two of them. Ma Juan was sold to Qinxi Province and married her current husband. Ma Juan's husband is a simple and kind person. It was not until Ma Juan was eighteen that the two of them held a banquet and regained the house.

During this period, Ma Juan also ran several times, but within a radius of dozens of miles, there were more than 20 families in their village. It was surrounded by deserted loess high slopes and could not escape. After the eldest son was born, she gave up and the two officially obtained the certificate.

I asked her about her future plans. She said that her father-in-law helped someone dig a cave and collapsed and killed her. Her mother-in-law also passed away sadly. There was no one there. Now Uncle Ma is increasingly unable to live without people. She wants to take her husband and children back to Ancheng to settle down.

Everyone discussed that Huazi was working in the police station and was responsible for their settlement; Jianjun asked to renovate Uncle Ma’s bungalow and build a room in the yard; I was responsible for arranging the children’s schooling.

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Tuesday, October 11, 2005

To this day, Ma Juan's affairs have finally been done.

All household registration has been left;

The two children go to school in their children's school;

A room was built. Over the years, Ma Juan's sister-in-law took care of Uncle Ma, and she didn't live here very much, so she lived there completely for five people;

Ma Juan works as a warehouse manager in Jiangtao’s food factory, and her husband works as a security guard at Jianjun Company’s construction site.

Huazi also checked Ma Dan'er's whereabouts. When the boy arrived in Pengcheng, he was scattered in Pengcheng. In 1991, he was caught in the injury of "Immortal Jump". He escaped from the middle and wanted to cross the line to Xiangjiang. When the police stopped him, he refused to arrest the police and was shot dead on the spot.

Ma Ling's whereabouts were completely cut off.

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Sunday, August 27, 2006

I completely broke up with Bai Weiwei today.

I have never had a formal partner, and it is not that I am not suitable, but my family is barely covered and there is also a sick father who doesn’t want to drag him down. The key is that he doesn’t look down on him. After his father passed away, he went to work and started a training class. Finally, he had some savings, bought a house, and wanted to get a home in peace.

I had been with Bai Weiwei for nearly a year and started talking about marriage, but the matter was just his mother.

Bai Weiwei's mother said she wanted a 100,000 yuan bride price, and the bride price would be kept at her parents' home and left for Bai Weiwei's younger brother to get married.

I didn't agree. I didn't have so much money. I have just paid off the loan from buying a house. Besides, if you want a bride price, others only need 30,000 or 20,000, and you want 100,000, and I have never heard of it in the whole of Ancheng.

I can't understand this kind of operation. Others' families will bring the bride back after marriage. Even if half of the bride is brought back, it will be kept as personal money. Your family is like the son getting married and the son-in-law pays the money. What do you think?

It’s better to have a separation. Such a parent’s family will be a trouble in the future after getting married and cannot be affected.

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Tuesday, November 7, 2006

Zhang Wei is back and no longer going to the Demon City.

I drank together at night and was in a bad state. I asked him what was going on, but he hesitated and didn't say anything.

In fact, seeing him being stunned from time to time, his eyes light and dark, and hesitant, it must be either because of women or because of love.

I didn't ask any more questions, I just kept my personal privacy if I wanted to.

Jiang Tao said that his factory still lacked an office deputy director, so he asked Zhang Wei to go there for a while. Jianjun said he could also go to his place.

I suggest he do it himself. He studied foreign trade English in college and worked in a import and export company in Magic City. He has basic and experienced. He can register a trading company by himself and find two popular export products. He will take some orders at the import and export commodity trading conference next spring, targeted processing, and channel export. Even if he only earns a tax refund, he will be very good if he does it well.

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Sunday, July 15, 2007

I was broken up again today, as expected.

I am in my thirties, and Ningning is just 21 years old, and she is more than ten years apart. The two of them have very different consumption concepts, living habits, and social concepts.

Today, she mentioned the marriage matter. She said that she would not consider getting married before she was thirty years old and could do anything, but she would only fall in love.

I don’t understand. I can go with you even if I have beds, but I can’t get married.

I don't seem to feel even lost. I should just feel that I'm old and it's time to find someone to get married. As long as I don't feel disgusted, anyone can do it.

Love is like a ghost. There are many people who believe in it, few people who meet, or it is a legend at all.

Xue Yan? Why did you think of her again? Hell?

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Sunday, November 26, 2007

This month, there were seven blind dates, including one who had divorced but not children and one who had a widowed with a six-year-old daughter.

Am I so unsold now?

Zhuzi's mother explained that she would introduce me to another day, which was the daughter of an old lady who danced square dance with her.

It's gone, it's nice to be alone.

But what the little girl I saw today still touched me:

"We are not suitable, it's not that you are not good enough, it's that we have a big age gap and a generation gap. You have changed all the time, and life is full of the coldness and calculations of reality; but I am still passionate in my youth, and the purity and enthusiasm of the dreams I maintain in life are not the same person."

So fucking insightful.

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Monday, February 16, 2009

Uncle Ma passed away, so we went over to help.

In recent years, I have become more and more optimistic about Ma Juan’s husband.

Uncle Ma was stupid. Ma Juan's husband never disliked him at all. He served him in front of the saddle and even took him to urinate. Every day, he cooked after work. After dinner, he pushed a tricycle to take Uncle Ma out for a walk, went home to wash his feet, and chatted with the chicken and duck. He even said nothing about Ma Juan, paying all the money and taking all the housework.

Xue Yan is here too. I didn’t go to the red envelope she got married two years ago, so I asked Yang Jing to help bring.

Her husband is a civil servant. He heard that his future is bright, and he is very happy that she is living a happy life.

Still just nodded politely.

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Sunday, July 12, 2009

Today I discussed with Jianjun to help Ma Juan open a dry cleaning shop.

Uncle Ma was in poor health when he was there, and the medical expenses were a lot of expenses. He also raised two children and had a lot of expenses to eat and go to school, so life was quite difficult.

In the afternoon, Ma Juan and his wife called us and said our suggestions. The couple were very willing. Finally, they agreed that Jianjun and I each invested 100,000 yuan, each accounting for 20% of the shares; Ma Juan and his wife accounted for 60% of the shares based on management and labor. Jianjun and I did not participate in any work in the store, but just waited for dividends. The dividends started in the first quarter of next year. If there was any profit before, they would be considered as publicity expenses, and they would do more activities to expand their popularity. Ma Juan and his wife thought they had too much advantage and should adjust the dividend ratio.

I didn't talk nonsense to them, I just decided and didn't change it.

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Thursday, June 11, 2015

It's been a day, I'm confused, and I feel like I'm walking in the clouds.

Sister Nan Nan came back and came back with her son, saying it was mine...

It's my son, it must be, it looks very similar to me when I was seventeen or eighteen years old. Although my face has become much softer, I can still confirm it with just a look.

This... what the hell happened.

Friday, June 12, 2015

When Sister Nan Nan left Ancheng and was about to go back to her hometown in Fucheng, Bachuan Province, she found out that she was pregnant and couldn't bear to do it, and she didn't want to cause trouble to me. After all, it was just an accident, and I was only 19 years old at that time. So I switched to the Magic City and taught piano in an art training class run by my college classmates. I didn't return to my hometown until my child was six years old.

After the child became sensible, he kept asking his father where he went. She told him that his father had passed away and had a car accident. Until the end of the college entrance examination, he didn't want to hide it anymore and told him about our affairs.

The child knew that his mother had an ex-husband who cheated on her and abandoned her mother, divorced her, and then fell in love with an uncle who had been helping her and caring for her for a long time. He got together and had him. Because the uncle was less than 20 years old at that time, and was far from the legal age for marriage, their union was not recognized by everyone. If he gave birth to him, not only were they, but the uncle's parents would face the criticism and scolding of people around him, and could not raise their heads in the future. In that era, reputation was very important, and it was hard to spare the death penalty in public opinion, let alone with a young boy who had just grown up, but he gave up his child and was reluctant to leave Ancheng, and this uncle didn't know his existence at all.

After the child knew the truth, he insisted on coming back, not for anything else, but just wanted to see me and make sure he had a father, so he came.

It's good, it's good...

Saturday, June 13, 2015

I have a son, my son is Ji Shao.

God, I used to curse you from time to time, and I felt resentful towards you, thinking that you have been cheating me, I was wrong, Aimu Sauri, it turns out that you have prepared such a big gift for me...

I have a son, Ji Shao, it doesn’t matter who his surname is, it’s my seed anyway.

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Sunday, June 21, 2015

These days, she has been accompanying Sister Nan Nan and Xiao Shao, visiting Ancheng, and taking them to Kyoto, the Forbidden City, the Old Summer Palace, Badaling, and the Thirteen Tombs... She is reluctant to part with them for a moment. If she wasn't sleepy, she wouldn't even want to close her eyes.

Xiao Shao initially ignored me, and now he occasionally took the initiative to say a few words to me.
Chapter completed!