Chapter 382(1/2)
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Qin Bingtong: "(Fireworks) (Applause)."
Ding Huiyun: “Damn it, I didn’t get the first place to give a speech to welcome the newcomers!”
Chen Wenqi: "...I think you can wait for the next one. At this rate, maybe you won't have to wait long!"
Daria did not bubble up in the group chat. Instead, she privately chatted with Gao Yun: "How many? There are already five now. Tell me how many will satisfy you?"
Gao Yun was very ashamed: "I don't know either. Why don't I go to your house tonight to discuss how many are there?"
"Get out! Don't come!"
After Daria chatted privately with Gao Yun, she sent two more Chinese characters to the group: "Welcome."
Do you want me if you don’t want to? Do you still welcome me? Gao Yun is bright-eyed!
Shen Qiongxiao, who had just entered the group chat, did not say anything for a long time. She never expected that someone Gao would dare to drag all the girls into a group chat, and the atmosphere of the group chat would be so harmonious? He would even rush to welcome her. ?
Horrifying! I feel like I’m watching a horror movie!
Shen Qiongxiao was caught off guard. After reading the welcome message for a long time, facing the joyful and loving atmosphere, she could only say one sentence to try to blend in...
“(Smirking) It’s good to get the group name!”
Ding Huiyun: "I, I took it!"
Shen Qiongxiao: "Awesome!"
Ding Huiyun: "Ha, image, right? If something goes wrong, I'll hit him twice in the sky! If you don't hit him, you won't be honest!"
Shen Qiongxiao: "..."
Chen Wenqi: "You will be honest if you beat me?"
Qin Bingtong: "It's impossible."
Daria: "As long as you can breathe, you won't be honest!"
The dishonest Gao Yun did not show up. He went to exercise. In fact, he would not ask for scolding in the group unless necessary. He would just let the girls communicate. Shen Qiongxiao went to the rest area next to him. If she continues to chat on her mobile phone, she will have to observe whether the atmosphere is an illusion...
Daria: "(picture) I just made my debut design under the guidance of Bingtong and the improvement of the studio staff!"
Qin Bingtong: "The road is long and difficult, so keep working hard."
Chen Wenqi: "Wow, this suspender skirt is so beautifully drawn!"
Ding Huiyun: "When can it be done?"
Daria: "It will take a while. Who will be my model when it is finished?"
Chen Wenqi: "Me!"
Daria said: "I have also designed some other clothes, but the production process has not been determined yet. If you want, you can give me your size and you can try them on when the clothes are finished."
Ding Huiyun: "Okay, I want to wear a coat, like a cloak~"
Chen Wenqi: "(Haha) Is a down jacket okay?"
Daria: “Anything is fine!”
Shen Qiongxiao: "(thumb)"
Daria: "@深强xiao, do you need it?"
Shen Qiongxiao: "Um, a T-shirt? Thank you."
Daria: "Easy, okay."
After chatting in the group for only a few words, Ding Huiyun said: "I have to go to bed. I'm in Switzerland. It's almost midnight here."
Chen Wenqi: "When will Sister Hui's trip end?"
Ding Huiyun: "It's still more than half a month away. Just wait, I will bring you gifts when I go back! Good night~"
Qin Bingtong: "An~"
Daria: "Buy more!"
Ding Huiyun: "OK!"
Shen Qiongxiao: "Good night~"
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The chat in the group, triggered by the "newcomer joining the group", lasted about twenty minutes and ended with Ding Huiyun taking a break.
The girls were not too surprised by Shen Qiongxiao's joining the group. In fact, it was the result of Gao Yun's vaccination long ago, but their harmonious communication surprised Shen Qiongxiao, and even made the bystander Lu Qing was dumbfounded and eye-opening;
"I'm convinced, so harmonious? What did Gao Yun do? My dad will have to worship him as his teacher if he finds out!"
Now Shen Qiongxiao's mood is very contradictory. He is pleased with the peaceful atmosphere, but also annoyed with so many women as his partner. From now on, he will have to share men together?
She sighed and said: "The root cause of all conflicts between people is that a certain need has not been met... At present, it seems that Gao Yun is still capable of satisfying them in a short period of time. , whether it’s physical or mental or emotional.”
"But how can he meet the needs of the palace?"
Lu Qing asked in confusion: "Are there any women willing to be young?"
Shen Qiongxiao took a deep look at her: "If someone is already sitting in the main palace seat, not only do they have a deep relationship with Gao Yun, but they are far superior to them in all aspects. They also have enough self-knowledge to recognize their own position." , when other needs are met, they will not have any delusions of palace status..."
Lu Qing smiled awkwardly: "Well, sister, you are right!"
Sure enough, you are still thinking about the position of the main palace? I have been unlucky for eight lifetimes to have a sister like you who tried so hard to steal a man from me...
For a moment, Shen Qiongxiao felt deeply sad for herself. She was silent for a few seconds and asked: "What do you like about Gao Yun? He is already like this."
"Apart from this." Lu Qing asked, "Is there anything else about him that people don't like?"
Shen Qiongxiao frowned and remained silent, thinking for a long time but unable to speak.
Lu Qing took the lead and said: "Nietzsche proposed the philosophical theory of 'Superman', but did not give 'Superman' a clearer definition. But in my eyes, Gao Yun is 'Superman' and the only one. He constantly transcends himself and pursues The strong will, from the mind to the body, has never slackened in tempering. Every time I see him, I will find different changes in his inside and outside. I remember the first time I met him, he was only nearly 1.8 meters tall. Relying on one's own will to achieve a breakthrough in one's own physiological limits is beyond my imagination..."
Fortunately, Gao Yun didn't hear this comment, otherwise he would have been a little shy, and the system boss might have come out to shame him...
Shen Qiongxiao suddenly laughed: "There is no real 'Superman' in the world. He used to be half a 'Super-ego', but not anymore. But there are two things he is very similar to 'Superman'; in conventional standards Next, they appear to be very evil in terms of sex! Second, they try to possess everything and dominate everything without any timidity or cowardice. They transcend the concepts of good and evil and are not reproached by conscience. Their moral standard is 'I can do it'. There is no such thing as 'I should do'..."
Lu Qing tried to persuade: "I think there is a superman, and that means he exists. If you think there is no superman, then he doesn't exist. Moreover, among the people I know, he is the most balanced person who can master vulgarity and loneliness. He can both swim and swim. Being able to walk in the world and yet turn back to yourself, I think this is another realm besides being a superman."
Shen Qiongxiao exclaimed: "Then he is both lonely and vulgar."
Miss Lu looked puzzled: "When did you learn to argue?"
"Just now."
Shen Qiongxiao responded with a smile: "When you haven't figured out your status."
"...Me!" Lu Qing was so angry that she couldn't speak.
Shen Qiongxiao ignored him, picked up her phone and sent a WeChat message to Gao;
"I'm in the rest area, come and kiss me!"
"Smelly baby! I'm coming!"
In less than ten seconds, Mr. Gao, dripping with sweat, rushed over like an ecstatic idiot. Ignoring Miss Lu's surprised look, he hugged Shen Qiongxiao and started to chew...
The two of them were engaged in a selfless exchange of lips and tongues, which lasted for a long time. This made Lu Qing's eyes red with hatred and she gritted her teeth: "It's more than just vulgar! It's simply vulgar!"
After saying that, he took out his mobile phone and said angrily: "That's enough for you, kiss me again and record it for you!!"
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"For a young person, if he has insight into people's affairs very early and is well versed in the world, if he quickly knows how to communicate with others, deal with others, and enter society confidently, then whether from an intellectual or moral perspective, This is a bad sign. It indicates that his nature is mediocre. On the contrary, if a young man is surprised and surprised by the way the world behaves, and behaves clumsily and eccentrically in his interactions with them, it shows that he has nobility. quality.”
—— Schopenhauer "Loneliness or Vulgarity".
This sentence may seem contradictory at first. Having insight into people's affairs and being sophisticated in the world means, according to ordinary people's understanding, it means being smart, knowing how to get things done, and understanding social rules. It is the ability to be able to chat with anyone and get along well in any situation.
But why is it that the earlier you have this ability and the earlier you have high emotional intelligence, the worse it is? It is even evaluated by Schopenhauer as mediocre in nature, which is a sign of poor moral reason?
On the other hand, if young people behave clumsily, have eccentricities, and have low emotional intelligence in social interactions, are they praised as having noble qualities?
In fact, the title of this book can give the answer; "Either Loneliness or Vulgarity".
"In this world, with very rare exceptions, we actually have only two choices: either loneliness or vulgarity."
The loneliness here is worth a kind of enjoyment, a rational choice after weighing the pros and cons.
The vulgarity here refers to the loss of self-principles among the crowd, blindly following the crowd and performing some meaningless activities.
Therefore, this sentence can be easily explained as, if a young person succumbs to the conventional social rules too early, it means that this person does not really understand the human nature. Instead, he raises his hand in front of the ugliness and laziness of human nature early. Surrendering, pessimistically accepting fate in this unfair and gloomy society, is to avoid the soul test given by fate, and this test is the only way to grow.
They don't even recognize the nature of society, so they blindly follow society and the crowd, join in the same trap with mediocre people, are good at building relationships, playing conspiracies, and using small tricks. They are complacent about this and think that their methods are superb. In fact, they have no ability to dig into the corners of the earth to explore the truth. Patience, they are mediocre people who don't know the world but are sophisticated.
Secular wisdom is just a kind of instrumental rationality. It does not provide people with higher value, but only caters to the existing social order. If a person is dominated by secular wisdom, he may be able to achieve a certain status, but he will not be able to go far. The result It is easy to be assimilated by the social order, thereby losing all enthusiasm for life. Their time and energy are devoted to all kinds of social interactions, parties, sensual enjoyment, entertainment and luxury. These things will lead many people into extravagance, and then Ended in pain.
The essence of human happiness lies in oneself. This self includes one's own health, personality, abilities, relatives and partners.
A person's greatest sorrow is not to find happiness in his own nature, but in the recognition of those mediocre people. People must not condescend to certain common practices at the moment, and must have insight that transcends the will of everyone.
The richer an individual has, the less he or she needs external things, and the less important others are to him. Therefore, a person with excellent spiritual thoughts will cause him to dislike interacting with others. To be precise, it is
To be continued...