Chapter two hundred and fifty second group skills
"Han Yi, I'll come out quickly..."
I saw more than a dozen young men dressed in gorgeous clothes, rushing in with great momentum.
"Dear boys, Han Yi is here."
Han Yi greeted him with a smile.
"Han Yi, what did you guy tell my wife yesterday, but my wife cried as soon as she returned."
The young man in a blue server roared.
"After my wife went back, she scolded me."
"What are you? After my wife went back, she didn't say a word. When I asked her, she ignored me."
"I trust you so much and allow your wife to come here. You are so ungrateful and repaid your grudges. It's unreasonable."
"Lang Lang Qiankun, how can you let the people be deceived by you here? We will send him to the government."
"Yes, I must send this guy to the government today."
These young men surrounded Han Yi group and roared excitedly, making Han Yi big.
"Wait!"
Han Yi couldn't bear it anymore and shouted.
The young men were startled at first, then glared at them, as if saying, "You are the one who runs a brothel, you dare to yell at us."
Seeing that there was another storm, Han Yi hurriedly said, "Sorry, sorry. I don't understand what you are saying at all. Yesterday we held it very successfully, and there was no surprise. I think there must be some misunderstandings. I take a step back and say, even if you think there is something wrong with me, you have to make it clear. If I really sorry for you, I am willing to accept punishment. I, Han Yi, are definitely not a person who dare not recognize me, but first of all, you have to let me understand the cart and the end of the matter. Come on, let's sit down and say, sit down and say, Cha Wu. Get some stools out quickly."
Cha Wu was so scared that he was no longer possessed and was still stunned.
"Tea Five!"
Han Yi immediately called out again.
"Oh, yes, yes."
Cha Wu hurried into the house, called a few more people, took out a lot of stools, and brought out two pots of hot tea.
"Dear men, please sit, please sit."
Han Yi smiled.
These young men thought to themselves that they were, you couldn't escape anyway. They said, "Okay! I'll depend on how you defend yourself."
"There is no question of justification, I just want to understand the reason for the matter."
After these young men sat down, Han Yi said to the young man in the blue uniform who had just shouted the most fiercely, "I wonder if this young man is noble?"
The young master of the blue server said, "My surname is Yu."
Last name?
Han Yi thought to himself, and then said, "It turns out that Mr. Yu is disrespectful and disrespectful. Oh, I remember that I did say a few words to Mrs. Ling yesterday."
"Why do you say my wife?"
Mr. Yu shouted.
Han Yi sighed and said, "I'm not hiding it from my husband, I'm actually trying to stand up for you."
"Um?"
Mr. Yu was stunned and said, "What do you say?"
Han Yi said: "When Mrs. Ling asked me about the loom yesterday, she suddenly said thank you, saying, "Young Master Yu, you used to stay in Zhongxiang and never stayed at night. Since there was a drama in Fengfei Tower, you rarely go to Zhongxiang, so you thank me."
When the other young masters heard this, they all looked weird.
Mr. Yu was even more embarrassed and blushed, saying, "Hu——Hu, how could my wife tell you this?"
When I said this, there was no such arrogant as before and obviously lack of confidence.
Han Yi said: "Isn't that true? I wonder, I think Mrs. Ling is virtuous and kind. Her words and deeds are all about the style of a great man. Mr. Yu, you can't let go of such a beautiful lady and run to Zhongxiang, so I think there must be a reason for it, so I asked Mrs. Ling if there is a hidden truth."
Mr. Yu hurriedly asked, "What did my wife say?"
Han Yi said: "Mrs. Ling looked confused, and she didn't know. Although she didn't say it clearly, I heard that she loved you very much, but you ignored her, Mr. Yu."
Mr. Yu remained silent.
Han Yi said: "I couldn't understand it after listening to it. I thought Mr. Yu was not such a person, so I asked a little about how you couple got along. But after I finished listening, I felt that Mrs. Yu was very wrong. I felt wronged for you."
Mr. Yu hurriedly asked, "Is that true? Do you really think so?"
"Of course. I, Han Yi, is famous for being honest."
Han Yi shrugged and said, "I think Mrs. Ling doesn't understand us men too much. She hopes you will do perfectly in everything. I hope you can be able to be a general and a minister in the future, and even in all matters, urge you. This is not the way for husband and wife to get along with each other, but the way for elders and younger generations to get along with each other. I told Mrs. Ling that if my wife treats me like this, I will not want to stay at home. Because men need dignity, any man hopes that his wife regards himself as the pillar of this family and as his own sky. Do you think so?"
The young men nodded one after another.
Han Yi said: "Mr. couples should respect each other, so I understand your feelings at that time. You must think, since you have to make decisions in everything, I will not care about anything and let you make decisions."
A confidant!
Mr. Yu was instantly moved and his eyes were blurred with tears.
It turns out that Mr. Yu’s wife is a woman from the Pei family, and her essay is even more talented. Sometimes, when Mr. Yu took the article to her, she was criticized from beginning to end. This led to Mr. Yu’s inferiority complex and simply stopped talking to his wife and never talked about these things again.
Yesterday, Mrs. Yu just said a few words in a very concealed manner, but Han Yi understood it as soon as he heard it, and then said, "So I told Mrs. Ling that you did something wrong. As a good wife, you must know how to respect your husband and give your husband face. On the one hand, you suppress your husband everywhere and hope that your husband will succeed. This is simply impossible. In a harmonious family, at least one of each couple is a "fool", so that you can balance well. I think Mr. Yu, you are so great. You are willing to be this fool. If you argue with your wife, you will definitely be a quarrel. It is conceivable that you are actually a wife who loves you very deeply."
Mr. Yu nodded with tears in his eyes and said, "You are right. I do love my wife very much."
They both got married at the age of fifteen or sixteen. They seemed to be around twenty years old, but they were both old husbands and wives. In fact, they didn't know how to get along.
Han Yi sighed and said, "I think your wife covered her face and cried after she went back, but she felt sorry for you. But Mr. Yu, I want to say something to you too."
Mr. Yu said, "Please tell me."
All of them were used to "please", as you can imagine, he was so grateful to Han Yi.
Han Yi said: "There is a truth. Love is deep and hatred is very strong. Your wife is like this because she loves you too much. If she is someone who has nothing to do with you, maybe he will hope you are bad, so you must also understand your wife. You should strive for progress and not let your wife down. I believe your wife understands your difficulties. She will no longer impose her thoughts on you. She should focus on you and assist you from the side. To be honest, I think Mr. Yu, you and your wife are really talented and beautiful, and are born together. Don't let misunderstandings make this beautiful marriage look dull."
This is so beautiful.
Mr. Yu was so grateful that he stood up and bowed, saying, "Thank you, Brother Han, for your advice. Yu not only did not feel grateful, but he spoke ill of each other. He was really ashamed."
"I dare not, I dare not."
Han Yi bowed.
Cha Wu was stunned. He wanted to kill someone who was going to be cut a second ago, but now he bowed and thanked him. This is too fast. His admiration for Han Yi is like a surging river, endless.
Another young man said, "What about me? Why did my wife blame me in all kinds of ways after she went back?"
But the tone has changed a lot, more of it is to ask questions and ask questions.
Han Yi recognized this person. The young master of the Linghu family said with a smile: "Young Master Linghu, your situation is exactly the opposite of Mr. Yu. I think Mrs. Ling is a rare good woman. Although I only talked with Mrs. Ling for a moment, I also saw that Mrs. Gui's gentleness and kindness are no less than men's mind, which is admirable."
Young Master Linghu said proudly: "That's right, the inner son is indeed a rare good woman."
Han Yi said: "So this is wrong with you."
Young Master Linghu hurriedly asked, "What do you say?"
Han Yi said: "Young Master Ling Hu, you are too obsessed with articles. I heard from Mrs Ling that when you come home, you always read books, and you forget to eat and sleep, and rarely communicate with her. She thinks this is what you should do, but she really hopes that you can talk to her, which makes her very conflicted. She doesn't know what to do, so she can only help you with everything. But I think Mrs Ling is too introverted and everything is hidden in her heart. This pair of bodies is not a good thing for both husband and wife, so I encourage your wife to tell you the grievances in her heart. The way to get along with husband and wife is communication, because husband and wife are the closest people, and you are ashamed to even talk about close people, then you are like strangers, which is not possible. I think as a husband, Mrs Ling Hu, you definitely hope to be able to protect your wife, otherwise you will not come here to cause trouble for me, right?"
Young Master Linghu nodded and said, "Of course."
Han Yi said: "So, in fact, your wife has a lot of grievances in her heart. So as a husband, should you also protect your wife so that your wife will no longer be wronged? Now the one who makes your wife wronged is yourself, so what should you do?"
Young Master Linghu said with a confused look on his face: "What should I do?"
Damn! You individuals are really - I am convinced. Han Yi said: "Of course, it is self-reflection, communicate more with your wife, and understand her difficulties. In fact, academics alone also need to communicate with others. If you specialize in research at home, you will only achieve half the result with twice the effort. Isn't Confucius' Analects of Confucius also communicated? In fact, your wife is also a talented woman, and her knowledge makes me ashamed. So even when you are studying, you can communicate with your wife. For example, if you see a good article, you can also show it to your wife. You must also hope that your recognition will be recognized by others, right?"
"It is reasonable to say it, it is reasonable to say it."
Young Master Linghu nodded repeatedly when he heard this.
"Brother Han, what about me? After my wife went back yesterday, she ignored me. What's going on?"
Another young man in green clothes stood up and asked.
Han Yi recognized this person as a child of the Zhao family and smiled and said, "Young Master Zhao, you can't blame me for this. Isn't it the same for you and your husband at home?"
Mr. Zhao was stunned and said nothing.
Han Yi sighed and said, "Mr. Zhao, I have a sentence for you. If a couple wants to last for a long time, the first thing is to give up the idea of changing their partner and learn to love the house and the mist."
Mr. Zhao was stunned when he heard this, and opened his mouth, but he never had the courage to speak.
Han Yi continued: "Actually, Madam did not speak to me first yesterday, but stayed silently aside. Seeing that she was silent, I took the initiative to ask her if she was not satisfied with my loom, so she said a few words to me. The reason why she went home ignored you was because the wives of other young masters were talking about their sweet life, and she and you never seemed to have a common topic, because your hobbies were completely different and you couldn't even talk together. And you always like to make her fall in love with what you love. If she was perfunctory, you were unhappy. After this, you became strangers."
Mr. Zhao was embarrassed when he heard this and said, "Did my wife really say that?"
Han Yi shook his head and said, "Of course not. Your wife is quite good at giving you face. In fact, your wife didn't say anything, but I got this information from their words."
"Are you so powerful?"
Han Yi sighed: "Actually, these are nothing, because what happened to you has happened to me."
Chapter completed!