This is really a shocking revelation!

"really?"

These young men and men all looked at Han Yi with pity...

Han Yi nodded and sighed, "What do you think I was at home before, and I was so popular. Not only did I have to go out to make money to support my family, but I also had to do housework when I got home. It's really a matter of everything, and I did it all."

Pitiful!

This simple sentence is really sad when you smell it, and the listener shed tears!

"I didn't expect that Brother Han, you are so miserable!"

Young Master Linghu said sympathetically.

Facing everyone's sympathetic eyes, Han Yi smiled slightly and said, "But I am very grateful for this experience. It is because of this experience that I have learned how to get along. In fact, my wife is not useless. She still has her advantages. Whenever I feel angry, I force myself to think about the benefits of my wife. In this way, I can let go of my resentment. If you don't believe it, you can try it."

As he said that, his eyes were still moving, and he found that seven or eight young men were frowning and pondering. After a while, he couldn't help but nodded slightly, and was shocked. Today, so many people were resentful towards their wives. He continued, "But later, my wife and I met honestly and honestly, and I realized that she had suffered a lot of grievances. Therefore, the way of husband and wife is more important than honesty, and honesty is more about communication. As a man, you should patiently listen to your wife telling her grievances. In fact, this kind of communication is also of great help to your career, because getting along with each other can make people grow up, know how to be humble, know how to listen, and understand. Since that time, my wife and I have become respectful and as close as a guest, as if we are as envious as others."

One person suddenly said, "What about your wife?"

"Ahem!" Han Yi cursed inwardly. This guy came to sabotage the situation and said embarrassedly: "My wife has gone back to her parents' home."

"Are you arguing with me?"

"When-of course not."

Han Yi fooled: "That's right, my wife and I will develop a kind of distance to create beauty."

"What does distance create beauty?"

"This matter has to start with me. Once, my wife and I went to the fields to work as a farmer. I suddenly found a beautiful lady walking by the roadside. I couldn't help but take a few more glances. Everyone should understand this."

"I can't understand."

"I don't understand this at all."

"This is a villain's act."

The young men shook their heads one after another.

Wow! tmd, what a group of hypocrites! Han Yi cursed in his heart, but smiled: "Of course, of course. Everyone is from gentlemen, how can I compare to it?"

Speaking of the word "gentleman", he deliberately increased the pronunciation and said, "But I looked at it a few times, so I was so desperate. This made my wife see it again. My wife was very unhappy and I felt deeply guilty. Later, when an aunt next door learned about this, she came to ask me, she said your wife is so beautiful. Why do you have to look at other women? I said that the lady is more beautiful than my wife, but strangely, everyone said that my wife should be more beautiful, which made me wonder, what was going on?

So I told my wife about this. Later we discovered a problem. No matter how beautiful a woman is, she will get tired of her after watching her for ten years. What should I do? Giving each other an appropriate distance will promote the relationship between husband and wife. That is, don’t be facing each other every day, and facing each other all day long. It will inevitably feel disgusting, so I chose to separate from my wife. She went back to her parents’ home."

Everyone nodded and agreed. In fact, the wives of the nobles are all very beautiful, more beautiful than most of the wives in Huayuelou, but the old is not as good as the new. This is the nature of men.

Just when everyone thought Han Yi was too right, Han Yi suddenly sighed heavily again.

"Why do you sigh?"

“I found out I did something wrong.”

"No, we think what you said makes sense."

Han Yi suddenly had his eyes blurred, and he said with a slight choking: "That's right, this long-term separation makes me miss my wife very much. I think I have suffered from lovesickness. There is a saying that only when I lose it can I know how to cherish it."

The young men nodded again and murmured: "Only when you lose, can you know how to cherish it."

This sentence is so good!

Many people even said it was wonderful.

"Brother Han, don't be sad, your wife will come back sooner or later."

"Yes, why don't you ask your wife to come back?"

"If I need my help, I will definitely help you."

A group of young men comforted Han Yi.

It seems that his acting skills have not completely deteriorated! Han Yi's eyes turned and he said, "Thank you for your kindness, I have sent someone to deliver a letter." As he said, he said seriously, "This is why I want to make a woman come out on the sun."

"Oh, what does this have to do with Women's Day?"

Mr. Zhao said curiously.

Just then, there was another shout outside, "Han Yi, you lewd, get out quickly, I can't spare you."

"Wow, I'm so angry, Han Yi, get out quickly."

In less than a moment, I saw a group of young men breaking in. This time there were even more people, about twenty or thirty.

But this time, Han Yi didn't have to speak, so Mr. Yu and others stepped forward one after another.

"Brother Li, you misunderstood Brother Han."

"Yes, we all misunderstood Brother Han, but Brother Han is actually thinking about us."

Those new young men are stunned. What is this happening?

Before they could come back to their senses, Mr. Yu and his friends pulled these people over. Cha Wu was smart this time and quickly took out a lot of stools from the house.

"Brother Li, don't argue for now, let me hear from Brother Han. Brother Han, please tell me quickly. What does this have to do with women's day?"

Han Yi almost laughed out loud when he saw the young men's shocked expressions. He coughed lightly and continued, "The reason I made a woman's day is for your sake. First of all, this distance creates beauty. If your wife is at home all day long, then she will be tired of it sooner or later, but occasionally separate and give each other a private space. It is to give everyone a single environment, which can promote the relationship between husband and wife. I dare to pat my chest and say. You must hope at some point that you can think about things alone. If your wife suddenly appears and asks something, you will feel very upset."

Everyone nodded in an orderly manner.

This is human nature, everyone has this kind of time.

Han Yi said again: "Secondly, it is to increase the common topics that couples meet. If you are outside every day and come into contact with something new, and your wife doesn't know at home. When you get home, you tell your wife this and that, but your wife doesn't know at all and cannot communicate at all. This will seriously hurt the relationship between the couple. Why do everyone like the wives of Huayuelou? It's not because they are beautiful. But because they are knowledgeable, they can talk to you whatever you say. This is interesting to communicate.

For example, you have watched the White Love of Life and Death, but your wife hasn't seen it. So when you want to tell your wife what's wrong with the plot of the drama, or something very exciting, but your wife doesn't know it at all, it will disappoint you. Therefore, you should let your wife go out appropriately and accept new things outside. In this way, everyone will have more common topics, I dare say. Yesterday, there must be many of you discussing the drama with your wife. The discussion was very interesting. Yes, right?"

The young masters nodded in one after another.

This man is so amazing that he seems to know everything.

This is actually very simple psychology, introductory.

Han Yi was afraid that it would be too profound, so they couldn't understand it, so he said, "Finally, we should let women communicate with each other more. It is true that if three people walk, I will teach you. In fact, you have many similarities and many different things. Just like Master Yu and Master Linghu, your situation is completely opposite. When your wives meet, they will comfort each other, encourage each other, learn from each other's strengths and weaknesses. This kind of communication between women will reduce the burden on our men, just like I comfort you now. If I were a woman, I would definitely not tell you this. Moreover, when you feel wronged, you will also talk to your friends. Any good friends and confidant will comfort you. After the conversation, I will feel much more comfortable, right?"

"Yiji, Yuji, I often complain to Brother Linghu."

"What I said is really right. I feel a little aggrieved and uncomfortable. If I don't vomit, I must find someone to say it out to feel comfortable."

"Isn't that true?"

“This is the problem.”

Han Yi said: "It is easy for us men to go out, but it is difficult for women to go out. If they have complaints in their hearts, can't find someone to tell them, and put them in favor of them, this is very pitiful, and we should understand it. But etiquette is like this, and I personally respect etiquette very much, so I made this woman day. The purpose is to increase communication between women and give them a chance to encourage and learn from each other. Anyway, everyone is a woman, which does not disobey etiquette.

Moreover, my play also reveals the way of getting along with each other, which is to teach people to be kind. I dare say, if you are willing to make a bowl of porridge and give it to your wife, your wife will definitely cry. Even if the porridge is bad, she will say it is delicious. Maybe they never go to the kitchen, but they may also learn from Jingjing after watching the play and try to make a meal for you. The way for husband and wife is to please each other."

A young man suddenly said, "Although what you said makes sense, if your wife always runs outside, how can it be?"

Han Yi smiled and said, "What this young master said is that we men are the pillars, and our wives will naturally be the mainstay of husbands. They run outside every day and ignore the family. That's fine, but I believe that all wives are well-educated and well-reasoned. There is no reason, and I believe that this will prompt us men to know how to maintain a home and make us progress. A family must have men and women, and none of them are missing.

In fact, the technique of controlling your wife is like flying a kite. If you pull it tightly, the kite can't fly, you loosen it, and the kite runs away again. Between this tight and loose, it depends on you to grasp it. Moreover, I, a woman's day, is not available every day. If you want someone to be by your side and help you and encourage you, then you must first regard the other person as a person, not a thing. As we all know, things have no feelings, people have it. We men need to talk to each other and communicate with each other, and women also need it, instead of being a vase at home. No matter how beautiful the vase is, we can only see it. So please believe me, the women's day in Fengfeilou is actually for the sake of men."
Chapter completed!